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Old 21st August 2011, 05:21 AM   #2
chosen
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Re: My husband's internet activity is gay, transexual, tranvestite sites

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I will certainly pray for you, this must be such a shock. It does sounds as if he may have some leanings towards this area sexually, and is it poossible that he could be a transvestite?. You say you have only been married for a few years, so was he married before?
The fact that he has changed all of his passwords does sound rather strange, unless that is something that he does regularly anyway?

Being a Christian doesnt mean that people dont sometimes have temptation in this or other areas sexually, for example we have a close male Christian friend who struggles with being attracted to other men, and it must be hard for them, BUT this has nothing to do with you or whether you are there for him sexually, its probably something that he has had for many many years, and maybe all of his adulthood.
Its probably not a good idea for him to be going onto these sites, as it is just feeding it, especially if he is masturbating, but all you can really do is pray for him at this time. Do you have a close friend at church that you can confide in and who will pray with you about this?

You could mention to him that you feel that all is not right with him sexually, and that maybe he has some problems and difficulties in this area with temptations, and see what he says, but he will probably want to hide it from you,and he probably feels ashamed as well. Is he able to have sex normally with you, or is the ED stopping that completely?
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