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Old 22nd May 2009, 06:35 PM   #2
Raymond
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Re: Sexless Marriage falling to pieces.....

Difficult one Marky. There is probably a problem from childhood but it shouldn't be an excuse not to have sex.

One thing sticks out for me i.e the excuse about all the stuff in the past has put her off. What would that be?

There seems to be many excuses but what is the real one? We need to find out. Maybe something can be done about it?

Sexs doesn't just happen all the time in marriage. Usually it's a decision by the man (not always). The wife is usually the responder, but you are getting rejection here. There is a reason for this somewhere and you need to find out. Talk and understanding usually helps but you have gone a long way down the line and need answers.

What does she mean by don't ask me to do this and don't ask me to do that? Have you been making demands on her that are uncomfortable for her?

I am just fishing here but you do need some answers quick.

Raymond
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