stevie

Hi Helen, thanks for your input.

I guess the weight issues make me sound real shallow - maybe i am

I am not looking for a model wife, dont get me wrong but we are not talking just a few pounds here we are talking a fair old stack of weight and whichever way you look at it it does make a difference - both in appearance and in your whole outlook on life. You're quite right the security of marriage may well let you relax and maybe she doesn't want to help herself or improve the situation.


Cheers Steve