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Old 19th October 2009, 07:05 PM   #40
Raymond
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Re: just found out husband is having an affair need help

There are good signs there if you wanted to work at it Coolicrumble. He seems to know it was wrong and regrets it so the repentance seems there. You are obviously still smarting understandably, but if it's going to work in the long run forgiveness will be called for from you. That means wiping the slate clean and not bringing it up or going over playback. You seem to be hovering in the middle still and I know why. The trust will take time to be built up again. You really need to keep talking with each other but I know you need a break and time alone as well.

Why did he cheat? There was no excuse reallyas far as I can see. People do stupid things sometimes. If they learn from their mistakes it can bode well for the future.

Raymond

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