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Old 13th October 2009, 02:42 PM   #37
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Re: just found out husband is having an affair need help

Coolicrumble Raymond is so so right, do not make a decision when you are feeling the way you are, wait until the shock of what he has said has subsided and take stock.

The thing is we ask all of these questions (been there, done it ) but we are not fully prepared sometimes for the answers we get. My H told me had said to the ow he loved her, he was leaving me, he was only staying because of our son, all of this stuff killed me when i heard it, but will i let that ruin 21 yrs of m or perhaps 21yrs more, no i wont. The reason is that i know I love my H i just don't love the stupid thing he did. Take your time remember....act in haste repent at leisure...Stay strong and decide only when you are sure thats what you want long term.
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