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Old 13th October 2009, 01:25 PM   #36
Raymond
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Re: just found out husband is having an affair need help

Coolicrumble I am at work and can only make a quick comment. My initial feeling, not going into it too deeply just now, is that sudden decisions made in haste when we are hurt never work out. I would counsel to calm down and consider things in your right mind. If you come to the same decision fair enough but don't act in haste unless you are very sure.

Maybe he was being honest which you wanted him to be. It wasn't right as you are his wife not her. The question is what do you do with this information he disclosed? He is unlikely to share anything like that again and perhaps he should have considered your feelings before disclosing that unhelpful bit of information, but you did push him to.

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