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Old 1st October 2009, 05:45 PM   #31
Raymond
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Re: just found out husband is having an affair need help

A good sign that he is phoning morning and evening but what do you actually want? Remember what I said about Limboland. Are you waiting for something more to happen? Are the signs of repentance there? If so you will need to decide whether you now want to work at it, which will involve you being willing to forgive and forget, which also means turning off the playback. I do not say this lightly but if you are going to move on this has to be faced at some point. I don't want to pressure you but moving forward will be along those lines when you are up to it.

If he is making light of the betrayal then it won't work but if he isn't and is trying his best there is hope for your marriage.

Raymond
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