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Old 6th May 2009, 10:09 PM   #17
jools
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Re: I love you but I'm not in love with you

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Jools, It is since she got friendly with this other man that she has been this way, at Christmas she was absolutely fine.
I believe that! What I was trying to say was that these other people can come along at times when our partners might have niggles about things in the marriage or just our lives at that time. And these niggles would under normal circumstances be worked through and we come out the other side. However an "other person" might appear at such times and supply a welcome distraction. I actually also agree with what Raymond said about fronting this other bloke. You do indeed have "moral authority". A word in his ear might be enough to scare him off. So what if your wife doesn't like it? I think I'd respect a man more if he took that course of action. It's more manly than sitting back, knowing who the other bloke is and doing nothing for fear of upsetting the apple cart.
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