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Old 6th May 2009, 08:13 PM   #16
Raymond
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Re: I love you but I'm not in love with you

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Originally Posted by jjjj_jjjj View Post
She is having a EA at the very least. What you do next will determine the future of your relationship. Do not try an win her back. Begging will only push her farther away. Demand that she ends contact with this guy and stick to it. There are a bunch of books on stuff like this. There is something called the 180, look into it. Men in your situation often try to romance their wives back and this never works.
I think that this is the best answer I have seen so far on this thread. You cannot pussyfoot around here. Time to be a man?

I also think you should weigh up whether to talk to him even just to say watch it mate that's my wife. She is in the wrong. You have some moral authority here.

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