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Old 6th May 2009, 06:03 PM   #11
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Re: I love you but I'm not in love with you

Hi Golden Boy,

i had the same thing form my wife only last week. Unfortunately, i found out she was having an affair with her 'best friend'!! It had been going on for 6 weeks before she told me the truth and we were living together and planning to move house etc. during this time.

Like other people have suggested, the other guy turned her head and made her think things weren't right in our relationship and took advantage of her vulnerability.

She also refused to go to councelling as she probably didn't want the affair to come out, but it got to the point that she couldn't lie about it anymore (i think the guilt got to her).

If I were you I would try and have it out with her and get the truth - trust me its worse finding out that it has been going on for weeks behind your back.

Listen to the poeple on hear about looking after yourself as they have been fantastic in helping me start to sort my head and health out.
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