Re: brink of seperation
Sorry to hear that you are still having these problems Jan.
It sounds difficult. You do need good sleep and he does need his time out it seems. I would go along with that and let your need of sleep be known as well. Perhaps go for one good night of undisturbed sleep with his help once a week? He is frustrated and you are tired. It is hard to work on your marriage unless basic needs are recognised
If the counseling is too negative can you change? Is this from your church? Does she pray into your situation?
Can I ask what sort of problems you individually had before entering marriage? Something basic is going wrong it seems to me. I get the feeling some of the problems have their root in things which happened before the marriage. Did you both have stable backgrounds?
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