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Old 4th May 2012, 08:43 AM   #72
Raymond
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Re: How do I trust him again?

That's a very good post Sammie. There is forgiveness in your words and understanding that should go for a lot to restore your marriage.

I am very happily married and always endeavour to be completely faithful but I was taken unawares a few months ago by a woman in the shower in the swimming pool. It really shook me and I could feel the temptation within me. I told my wife about it afterwards straight away. The thing is I wasn't looking for this. It just suddenly happened. Your husband was more unfortunate and fell it seems. There is a difference in someone looking for it and the situation where it just happens. I always thought I was invincible anywhere. I realise that I am not and have to guard myself like anyone else.

I think you have to continue with the trust so that he doesn't get discouraged. Forgiveness doesn't punish but wipes the slate clean. We all need that at times when we are sorry. It's part of life. I think you will get there.
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