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Old 1st May 2012, 08:20 PM   #65
Sillyman
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Re: How do I trust him again?

Hi Sammie,

Nice to hear from you again.

I admire you for at least trying to make a go of things. I totally understand your H's frustration - in his head I imagine he thinks he's doing all he can to put things right.

But he also has to understand that - as Raymond says - trust can take a long time to rebuild.

It's also probably very frustrating for him that he hasn't made much headway and his misdemeanours are being brought up again. But that is what he must expect from you - you have to be totally sure that 'lowering your guard' is the right thing to do.

I hope you can get where you want to go with this.

SM
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