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Old 17th August 2010, 12:07 PM   #5
chosen
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Re: Love without physical attraction?

I do agree with Raymond that in time the normal sex drive with you will return. He got used to having the porn to arouse him, and now it may take time to return to normal.
Were things normal with you guys before he started looking at porn?

I am so glad that you did what you did. It just shows that men can stop if they think they will loose their wives. So many women put up with it and never set boundaries and that is sad, because the men then know that they dont have to stop.

It is so damaging and so destructive. A friend of mine divorced her husband because she found out that he was looking at porn when she was out, while their two small children were playing in the same room. He was supposed to be looking after them. When we marry we do promise to be faithful and to forsake all others and looking at hundreds of naked women is not doing that in any way.

Well done for being so strong.I dont know if you are a believer, but try praying. It works.
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