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Old 8th January 2005, 05:33 PM   #67
KellyJ
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Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

April: Your situation is bad but certainly not uncommon these days

When you do have sex has he had any problems performing? Is he able to get and keep an erection? Does he ever having trouble ejaculating? If so these are the physical manifestations of heavy porn use and that he is masturbating too much.

One thing you might try is to get him to stop masturbating and not look at porn for one week. This is easier than demanding he get off it completely. Make a deal with him. You will do something nice for him if he promises to abstain from the porn say from a Saturday to the next Saturday.

If he has a normal sex drive, you should see a big change in him sexually after going a week without an orgasm. That in itself might make him realize that real sex with you is much better than porn.
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