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Old 16th December 2004, 03:09 AM   #51
KellyJ
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Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

The married porn user walks a fine line between masturbation and sex with his wife. I suppose some men can go for years doing both, ideed some women here have said they join their husbands watching porn. But the hardcore porn user feels uncomfortable watching porn with his wife. He sees his "porn time" as HIS time, a time to be alone and to lose himself in the porn fantasy. Something he can't do with his wife in the room.

This fine line he walks can easily make a turn into more porn/masturbation and less and less wife. AS she grows older, perhaps puts on weight, or just the familiarity and monotony of intercourse with the same person for years and years can easily cause a man to begin to prefer the porn fantasy over sex with his wife.

I'd say any woman who is not a newlywed and who's husband is a regular porn user should keep all this in mind and keep a sharp eye out for the signs of a dwindling marital sex life.
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