Most men feel intimidated by the power tool in the bedroom. Don't worry, it doesn't replace you.We still rather have the real thing. My suggestion is to find toys that you both can use and enjoy together. Go to
www.mypleasure.com to find some cool stuff. There's the "Beginner's Vibe Pleasure Kit" that would be perfect for you and your wife. You can even use these toys in the shower! OOOOh what fun! P.S. they even have toys for men too!