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Old 18th October 2004, 08:39 PM   #24
Karly_H
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Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

Hi Kate. thank you for the link. I did try to put a filter on the computer which was not easy as he is the only one who uses it and it is password protected. I did manage to get at it one day when he left for work and his screensaver hadn't started uet. This is how I found all the porn. I installed the filter but it didn't work with the type of porn he downloads. He doesn't go to porn websites. He gets all his porn movies downloaded for free from a special newsgroup that is not a website. The filter only works with websites.

AS for him stopping for me, I have asked him but he is unable to function sexually very well with me and never really has. I am not screaming and yelling at him about this because the only way he can have an orgasm is by masturbating when he is by himself. I would like him to get help because I think if I could get him off the porn he might have an incentive to see a therapist about his ejaculation problems when he is with me . I'll try and see if any of those links help. I did talk to a sex therapist at our local clinic and she said he basically has to get off the porn before any treatment can begin so that is why I am searching for ways to help him quit.
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