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Old 9th October 2004, 10:10 PM   #21
SelaW
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Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

{QUOTE}i firmly believe he made a choice, porn instead of his wife.And now when he sleeps with me its in my head that he'd rather be pleasing himself on the computer. The porn, the hurt, the lies, the continually being pushed away night after night ruined my marriage. Yes he was an addict and i know a lot of men don't use porn this obsessively. There are lots more humiliating details i could tell you about, but you don't need me feeling sorry for myself when you need advice. My only advice would be, decide before you marry him can you put up with the porn yes or no and if the answer is no i personally dont think you should put your self through years of heartache. In his defence he didn't lie to you and in my experience that counts for a lot.

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chellex[/QUOTE]

After years of watching porn many men just can't get aroused by sex with a real person. This might be you husband's problem. Marital sex cannot compare to the physical sensations of masturbation and the heavy porn fantasy. Has he ever complained of his penis feeling numb during intercourse? Has he ever been unable to ejaculate or get and hold an erection? These are all sypmtoms of heavy porn use that has gone on for years.
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