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Old 7th August 2013, 01:14 PM   #8
toellandback
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Re: Husband has left!

Hi there.
Sorry to hear your in the same place I am. If you have a look at my thread our situation is similar. It became apparent yesterday that my wife actually is worrying about us and not , as seemed apparent , just moving on.
I've felt the despair of losing everything, my hand shakes as I write this. But its clear your husband is suffering , as I belive everyone does in these awful situations.
I'm being looked after by my daughter, I'm able to now be more concerned about me whilst presenting a more positive image if me as a person. It's clear its making her see that she might have to reevaluate what she wants. At this time my wife and I are at radio silence. Chosen is correct , give space , look after yourself. Try to be strong and positive toward your husband. I love my wife dearly and until I know for certain she is gone forever, I will fight for us , even if my wife doesn't want me to.
I have a feeling from your words that you will be ok. And your husband WILL return.
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