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Old 16th April 2014, 05:19 AM   #21
chosen
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Re: Question for men - I would apreciate your candid opinion

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Originally Posted by edgya1234 View Post
Well things were more complex than that, some of them I don't want to talk about however:
1. I was not aware that this was the problem.
2. He was not taking care of himself like he used to ( he go fat for a period ).
3. We had some issues within the marriage because he had a time when he didn't want to do anything ( I mean with his life).

So I assumed I had other issues. This is new, I believe to possibly be the issue after just talking to you guys and having an "Evrika"moment just yesterday - or two days ago. And after he brought it up several times. However we needed the distance in order to fix things.
Why did him putting on some weight matter so much to you do you think? We all change physically as we age, many people gain some weight, that's life.
What did you want him to do with his life that he wasn't doing?
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