[Raymond]

Sounds a little hope there in my view Lassie. I am encouraged that you will not be a doormat because that is exactly what you could be if he is allowed to do this and have you as well. He has repented once about the original incident and it seems that he could be drifting into something else if he is not careful. It is time to be really up front I think. You need to confront as Forever has suggested. Let him get wind that your antenna is up. Maybe this will be enough if he seriously does not want to get involved in an affair but is just being tempted. If he is on your side and fights it then there is hope. If he hides it and lies and there were signs that this was the case then it is bad news. A battle has to be fought to turn it around it seems and I hope he wins and comes out on the right side.