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Forever · 15th May 2011, 03:28 PM

He's cheating.

I would not put myself through all the detective crap, interrogations, accusations ect...at this point. Why? Well, you say you dont want a divorce in spite of what he has been caught at before, and what he is doing now. Your goal is to provide stability for your three children. His goal is to eat cake.

I would just sit him down and tell him that you are aware of what is presently going on, and what went on in the past, and that you do not want to risk diseases from having sex with him...since you need to maintain health to raise the children. Tell him that since he obviously wants sexual relationships outside the marriage, to go for it, but leave YOUR body alone hence forth. Then focus all your energy on raising your children. This way, you will not be a doormat.

I am sure he will be delighted in having such unobstructed freedom, and you will have what you need to finish raising the children without all the drama that goes with trying to contain the behavior of a cheater.

15th May 2011, 03:28 PM	#4
Forever Registered User Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 1,408	Re: Am I a fool? He's cheating. I would not put myself through all the detective crap, interrogations, accusations ect...at this point. Why? Well, you say you dont want a divorce in spite of what he has been caught at before, and what he is doing now. Your goal is to provide stability for your three children. His goal is to eat cake. I would just sit him down and tell him that you are aware of what is presently going on, and what went on in the past, and that you do not want to risk diseases from having sex with him...since you need to maintain health to raise the children. Tell him that since he obviously wants sexual relationships outside the marriage, to go for it, but leave YOUR body alone hence forth. Then focus all your energy on raising your children. This way, you will not be a doormat. I am sure he will be delighted in having such unobstructed freedom, and you will have what you need to finish raising the children without all the drama that goes with trying to contain the behavior of a cheater.