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Old 8th April 2012, 06:30 AM   #56
goldenlady54
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Re: Make love to your wife or masturbate ??? my husband prefers the later choice

I haven't been intimate with my husband in 5 years (and counting). We've been together almost 29 years; and he has a diagnosed problem that causes this problem. His medication was recently changed, and he will spend all night masturbating. Then come to bed in time to wake me up an hour before I have to get up to go to work. Prior to that, we were dealing with erectile dysfunction; or some times he said he just wasn't interested. In order to insulate my feelings, I had to close myself off, or I would drive myself crazy. So now, the reason why we have no intimacy, in his opinion, is my fault. I miss the intimacy yes ... but I refuse to set myself up to 1) have a failed attempt; or 2) have him fall asleep. Can't do it anymore. So what do I do now?
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