Kfallon

Hi, 1st time writing on a forum but I just need some advice.

My husband and I have been married 5 1/2 months. He says that he needs more alone time to play Xbox and have lads nights but we hardly spend anytime together as it is. I can't work because of visa type so I spend all day alone (I go to expat meeting but I've always struggled making friends due to social anxiety) and when he comes back I see him for all of 5 mins and then he's off playing Xbox (FIFA) I try to watch so I can be with him but it gets boring so I end up watching TV alone and often eating alone. Now he says that he needs more space and lads nights (same lads he works with and plays online FIFA with) I feel we hardly spend time together as it is and so have asked if they're just play vgames all night can't I go to as I'm a gamer myself, he always says no but that he'll take me out some other time.

Getting so frustrated with being ignored. Also our sex life has died a death with us only having sex when he wants...twice a month....or when's he wants something, kind of I've slept with you now I can legitimately hang with the guys and you can't complain cuz I've spent time with you. I've tried to spice it up but can only be rejected so many times.

I'm sick of being ignored and him not caring. After 5 1/2 months of marriage I'm reaching the end of my tether.


Ps. He wasn't this way before we got married.


Please advise.