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Old 21st September 2011, 04:36 PM   #9
Helen_uk
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Re: Wife wants "space" and is moving out

Loving,

This not a personal attack , but it seems to me there has been quite a lot of your wife going along with the way you want to do things for a while and now she's made a decision for herself that she wants some space to think things through .

Whilst it isn't wrong of you to want to address the issues , your wife has given you a clear indication that she needs some space to process her thoughts and feelings and I'm afraid you are going to have to bite the bullet and give her the time she's asking for.

It sounds like the last few months have been stressful and it may be she's feeling overwhelmed by all that's happened . If you don't allow her time and space to sort things out I fear she may make things permanent .

I also feel- and this is a purely personal opinion so don't be offended- that adopting a second baby so soon after a first would put your wife ( and yourself ) under a great deal of stress , both emotionally and financially.
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