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Old 22nd October 2010, 11:56 AM   #1
Rainbow
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My husband had a affair!!

Hi everyone,
I just posted a very long thread and lost it!!!!!!!!!!

So will have to keep this brief as in alot of pain.

My husband of 39 years admitted to an affair in July of this year (after i found out, long story) and my life has been turned upside down.
The affair lasted a year and he immediately broke it off.

However i have a serious illness which i have had for many years and the intimate side of things went out the window.

The coming days/weeks were horrendous and only those that have had this happen to them will understand what i went through and also all my family. I have two married children and four precious grandchildren.

Well i took him back 2 months ago and yes i know its early days etc but i now seem to be stuck and cannot move on.
All i see every hour of every day is the sick images of them together and what they talked about.
You see he told her many private things about me and told me so many things ( oh i needed to know)!! They loved one another you see.

He will do anything for me to put this right but i can't move on at all.
We have had councelling and it made things worse.
He had broken every single marriage vow and my trust etc and i cannot live like this anymore.

I shall come back later and talk more if thats ok but right now in alot of pain.
Thankyou for reading. J.
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