[Hopefull1983]

Originally Posted by bhan001

hey all,
bad day today, and it all started over the car being frosted over, and it just felt like the last straw! just feel so down today, already had a cry in the bathroom in work, they all know in work and they have been great but it's as soon as someone asks are you ok that i just want to cry again, i'm just fed up of acting like everything is ok cause it's not and i just want to wallow in self pity for a while without everyone telling me it will be ok and chin up etc! cna't wait for the day to be over!

Wallow in self pity then sweetie. It's good to cry. Beat your pillow up...scream, shout...it all helps. Don't let it beat you though! Be strong. IT WILL BE OK...not yet...not even close but IT WILL BE! It's hard people who haven't been through it trying to offer sympathy when they have no idea but it shows they care. Vent on here though it helps because we know what you're going through. x