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Old 3rd May 2012, 02:12 PM   #69
chosen
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Re: How do I trust him again?

The thing is that he needs to do things that will help her to be able to begin to trust again. Visiting that woman in her country apparently after the affair had stopped was mad. Flirting with women at work is mad. These things will not enable her to trust again. There are things that he can do that will help to do this. He can avoid being in exactly the same position with any other women as he was before that led to the affair. He clearly has a weaknes so he needs clear boundaries to stop futher temptation. If that isnt possible in his job, then he may need to consider changing jobs to save his marriage.
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