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Old 13th October 2011, 04:36 AM   #29
1aokgal
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Re: Wife wants "space" and is moving out

Dear Loving..

Whose idea was the adoption? I don't think a woman who wanted a child and then actually adopted one, then would think in a career mode. I think you were the drive behind both decisions. That being married only two years would be a beacon for problems in a normal adption process and then with her health problems as well. So the adoption must have been outside normal channels where money counted more than circumstances. Is that correct?

It is also true that a child places a lot of new pressures on parties involved. The demands physically and psychologically and financially takes a toll and much is not something people realize going into such a situation. How did your family relate to this adoption? Did you adopt outside your country?

Last edited by 1aokgal; 13th October 2011 at 04:51 AM.
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