Re: Engagement weirdness: Help please
I wouldnt want to marry a man who wanted to live togather,so thats where we are different. The thing is that when I married in the 70's, practically no one lived together, and the divorce rate was far lower. Now practically everyone does live together, and the divorce rate is extreemly high. I suppose that for me marriage is a committment for life and not a trial, wheras many live together to test each other out incase they dont get on. Would you think that was a fair assumption Brain?
The thing is that its all about compromise and accepting each other as we are and not as we want each other to be isnt it?
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