[Raymond]

Theres something heartless and cold about it all. Bhan there doesn't seem any valid reason for doing what he did. If it was someone else that would be awful but at least it would explain things, although it would never be right. If it is the same as Hopefull's situation then there wasn't someone else just a kind of desire to play the field and not be committed to anyone.

The only good thing, as jools expressed, is that it happened early and you are young enough to recover and hopefully find someone with the same values who believes in marriage and faithfulness.

I know that doesn't help you now as I know you must be wounded and grieved inside and be wondering how you are going to get through each day. A lot on here will be able to empathise with you you will find.

Raymond