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Old 22nd August 2011, 04:42 PM   #10
chosen
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Re: My husband's internet activity is gay, transexual, tranvestite sites

I think that she needs to learn what is happening before she starts having std tests or anything, or jumping to any wrong conclusions. If he is a man who likes to wear womens clothing(which it sounds like) then there is no reason why he would have had sex with anyone else, men or women, and it can be worked through. If the wife is OK with it, then the marriage can survive. There isnt anything to suggest that he is gay here.

H and C if you show him you are appalled or shocked, he will never be honest with you again.
Even if you feel like this inside, dont show it, just be calm.
He probably feels bad and guilty enough about it as it is, and that is why he hasnt felt able to tell you.
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