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Old 27th February 2015, 10:28 AM   #3
chosen
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Re: My wife of 16 years wants us to split

What makes me very sad is that when a man comes here saying that their spouse doesnt love them any more and wants to leave, the man ALWAYS blames himself, and that wrong. She is the one who is acting badly here and wanting to destroy the family and break her promises, not you.
MY husband did the same with his ex. He blamed himself even though it was her who met another man and divorced him, and he is the nicest, most decent, moral, good and funny man I have ever met. I adore being his wife.

We all need to be accepted and loved for who we are, not who our spouse wants us to be.

Could there be another man? Thats often the case.
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