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Old 7th August 2013, 01:24 PM   #9
Puglove
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Re: Husband has left!

Thank you it's such an awful situation that I wouldn't wish on anyone. I always thought if a man left me I would be strong and " if he wants to leave he wants to leave!"
I was wrong!!

I have since realised that my grief after losing dad turned me into an angry bitter person. I was petrified of my husband dying or getting hurt so almost acted like his mother!! Worrying about him. My overbearing began to suffocate him so he started going out more to get away from me and my reaction was anger! 6months after losing dad I suddenly lost my great aunt (who was more like a 2nd gran to me,) we visited her in the same hospice as dad, she passed away in the same room!
I felt that I should push everyone away so I couldn't be hurt again!

I do feel he felt I was too much to handle and the lovely girl he married was gone forever!
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