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Old 3rd July 2013, 12:48 PM   #35
Raymond
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Re: child produced from affair with married man

It is not faith Sybil the fact that you are ending up together. Faith in God comes from the heart and is something we believe and act on. Observing that you end up together doesn't necessarily mean it is of God. Many women are stuck in this position and don't have the courage or inclination to leave.

Yes we have seen some on here forgive their partners after adultery and the marriage was saved but that is where there was sincere repentance which led to a mind change on how to behave in that area. Forgiveness does not always mean reconciliation. We can forgive but still separate because of adultery.

It seems you have chosen to stay with him and that is your choice. If you think you have his sincere repentance that is up to you. To me it seems as if he is not considering his marriage or your feelings by the way he is handling this problem.
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