Re: Married and lonely
Chosen,
The lack of respect is now an ongoing thing between both of them...but it was initiated first by his disrespect for his wife by continually using porn, and then by her since finding out about it. Porn on any level usually becomes a "deal breaker" in most marriages where there is no repentance. Since she did not initiate a divorce (based on Christian principles rather than legalities) then what you are looking at here is the long term damage in both of them.
No doubt, he is the instigator here, but she keeps seething because she has not done anything to take a stand and initiate a remedy that relieves her pain....and he is simply not going to repent although he calls himself Christian. Regardless, she needs to watch her own attitudes and behavior as long as she is living with him. The marriage is dead....the man is a fraud, and she must be careful not to compromise her Christian character any further if she is not going to divorce him.
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