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Old 12th October 2015, 08:58 AM   #11
Raymond
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Re: Bored & Confused

You are only being honest biker. It's a red herring.

The big shock is that your wife has been sleeping with her boss for the last three years? We know that is very wrong and is adultery. However one cannot help feeling that you had a part of it as you had no interest in having sex with her. It is easy to see that she could justify it in her own mind.

The good thing is that she has confessed it. Where you go from here is anyone's guess. A lot depends on what she intends to do. The options are for her to leave the marriage or to save it. For her to save it would mean serious adjustments in the sexual area and in other ways. Of course this all depends on what you intend to do about all this. I think you have a lot of soul searching to do.
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