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Old 10th October 2015, 11:09 PM   #8
chosen
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Re: Bored & Confused

How about doing something that SHE will enjoy instead? Does she liked films? Theatre? Going for meals? Walks? Concerts? Surprise her with an evening out that she will enjoy. How about planning a short holiday somewhere as a surprise? Chose somewhere she will like. make a date night once a week and take it in turns to choose what to do. If you want to do a sport once a week then go for it, the exercise may help you mentally as well.

My older daughter said the other day that if we dont like things in our life, then we are the only ones who can change them. Look for another job if you hate it or get more qualifications so that you can get a better or more interesting job.

As for you not wanting sex, have you always been like that? If so get a medical check up, you may have low testosterone. Rejecting her sexually is wrong, you need to make an effort for her sake. She must feel so rejected and unloved.
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