[Raymond]

Men can be like that Faith. They do not need raltionship to have sex, although it is not right. One cannot tell for sure if he is only using you as a side bit if things do not work out and even if they do. 1okgal speaks a lot of sense to you Faith. She has experience of life on her side.

Obviously he left the videos with you to maintain the contact, maybe just in case. Men can deceive women as women can men. The only time to give your body is when there is that pledge that you are the one above all, above my traditions above any other, in short marriage. Why hold out for second best? Our feelings can truly be deceptive. Love is great but you need your head as well or good advice in lieu of it.

Raymond