Hi Jonas
I will admit that I made a mistake here. I posted on the Christian marriage section and don't think I should have. I'm never going to see things your way and you're never going to see things my way, so I guess it's best left. To be really happy you're going to have to find a girl who lives her life according to the letter of the scriptures (as you do) or there will always be conflict. Good luck to you.
Jools.
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Gay doctor