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Originally Posted by Forever
Nevertheless, you must proceed with caution since she cannot be won over by anything other than the Spirit of God working on your behalf...not by coercion, or logic or by any human reasoning or by strength or might or human power or sentiment. It is God who sees and understands where you are heading with this...and it is He who will rescue you (and her).
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Hi
Excellent and compassionate posts for "George".
Regrettably, this would be a difficult one.
I've known a couple. Once upon a time, this H had his first W who was just like what George had described about his W. He and his former W were essentially incompatible as lovers and they got along well as a roommate over a number of years. It virtually took years for him to leave this first W because he felt obligated to stay in this highly damaging marriage. Yes, she accused him of being a "pervert" and all sorts of other things. Eventually, his former W had several affairs and that's when he finally decided to move on.
I'm not sure if G's W will always stay "oppressed" if she were with someone else whom she may have been more compatible "that way". You either fancy someone or you don't. No one can force a woman or a man to fall in love with someone.
It's not a very happy marriage if she loves a man like a roommate because he is an excellent provider and a nice Daddy for her children. I believe no one can try to force her to change and I wouldn't be shocked if she wasn't quite in love with G by judging from what G had described......His W quickly went so defensive about the "book", that goes to show she has no interest whatsoever.
Some people marry too young when they don't even know what love in marriage actually means, not that I am saying this is what George's marital issues would/or might be. A very tough one, I'm so sorry to say.
xx