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Old 13th February 2012, 04:55 PM   #23
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Re: brink of seperation

Raymond, that was one of the things that came put in IC for me....My expectations were too high as i was too independent to let myself be vulnerable to someone else. Jan, my H is a also sensitive, a lot of the time I wasn't even aware of the things I was saying was hurting him and belittling him. h has said he has mentioned how he felt lots of time but I didn't really take notice until the ILYB speech. Now, I understand how much I love him and how much emotionally I have to lose. I have stupidly told H in the past that I was quite capable of carrying on without him and do not need him financially. I have been quite cruel about it.
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