[lovelyhappy]

If the sex and intimacy issue isn't resolved, it'll make the matters worse. I am a wife to a recovering porn addict who's under the GreatnessAhead program and he's been addicted since college, but his addiction became full blown when he lost his job back in 20011. I remember we only had sex every 3-4 months and those times were very difficult for him. Are you sure he doesn't have erectile dysfunction? My husband has the same issue and he's still coping up till now. This is the most painful journey that I have to bear but given my husband's willingness to change (he only sought for help when I told him I wanted a divorce), I've chosen to support him. I'm still in betrayal trauma, still in pain, and I don't know when I'll be completely healed. Carmen if the change doesn't come from your husband, your support will be useless. Talk to him. Tell him what and how you feel. Tell him that he needs to get rid of his addiction. Give it a time frame. If all else fails, then pack up and leave. All the best to you hun.