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Old 10th June 2013, 07:27 AM   #6
1aokgal
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Re: Porn addiction - Leave him?

Puffing Girl...

Desire to be perfect in the eyes of a lover or husband can drive women to many avenues. I had plastic surgery, makeovers and dieted to please, until I developed a life threatening illness of Pernicious Anemia. It took medical intervention to save my life but the aftermth was the loss of ability to intake certain essential nutrients. That means a reliance on monthly shots for me to stay healthy.

When a man withholds sex for whatever reason, the woman can then translate that problem as being her fault. She is not thin enough, sexy enough, or whatever standard we believe, to change the dynamics in the bedroom. Your eating disorder can be life threatening, as mine was then, so don't internalize that you are not attractive when the fault is in the use of porn. Porn is the "crutch" a man can use when he can't function in a normal manner. Partly this problem is the result of the worldliness that exists in movies, mags, books and the internet stimuli that brings garbage easily obtainable to those who seek it. There has to be an understanding and pact you make, that porn is not accetable in your home.
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