[Raymond]

Yeah I have just come back from a holiday as well. Good job you were around Forever.

We have had lots on this subject on here. I always treat it as mental adultery. The symptoms are very similar to real adultery or affairs. The sexual drive has found another object of it's desire instead of the spouse. Surely this is unfaithfulness and should be fought against and not just accepted.

I feel because you look at it as well Carmen you have weakened your position and are enabling him to a certain extent. It really takes an all out war against it to get back the purity and intimacy of a marriage. A lot are stumbling these days just because it is there. Passivity with this subject is a deadly enemy of marriage.

I believe there is a place for divorce where the other has become addicted and has no desire to change and be free of it. If he doesn't change and repent of it I don't see where you can go. I would advise not to get pregnant at this stage.

If you can get the dvd Fireproof and watch it it might help.