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Old 31st March 2009, 07:26 PM   #6
clockwork orange
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Re: Please somebody help me

I think the point AG has raised is about the child-mind interpreting gifts as love from a parent or such. Especially where gifts of some expense are given to compensate for lack of pysical presence etc.Later this would tend to develop into spending more and more on oneself to try to find the same sense of pleasure as in a childhood gift. Not quite the same as the love language idea, as you say Raymond.
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