Re: Another loveless pair :-)
As normal i will listen to any advice but in the end i make my own decision - so yes your thoughts are very welcome and i take them on board Helen.
I am trying to look at this from all angles and i think the problem i have is that the weight issues are long standing, the closeness we had in the early days was affected by this as i no longer found my wife so attractive, please bear in mind here i was a young newly wed of 23yrs - as an older guy i perhaps would not have minded so much. The intimacy has never got back on track and as a result the love has not flourished. Perhaps it is still there in the background or i wouldn't be looking for ways to resolve things.
Am i stupid to think that if she was to commit 100% to a fitness regime that we could get things back on track??
Thanks one and all for your comments - i take them all onboard.
Cheers Steve
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