Well as it ended up I put off phoning my son, and today decided to txt EXH was in the middle of the TXT when daughter in law to be rang and said EXh had just rang her to say OW wouldn't be at engagement party as her father had died.
I do feel very sad for OW for the sudden loss of her dad, it has freaked me out. I feel as if the universe is telling me something.
I mean OW could have grown horns or have all her hair fall out or better still she could have put on about 50KG over Christmas (EXH would have been freaked out and run for the hills
), but instead her father dies, which has now put the wind up me so to speak.