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j92cool · 29th December 2009, 10:28 AM

Oh dear. I don't know how I would cope either. I remember saying to my boys that I would not be caught dead under the same roof as their father so they had better think about it before inviting him to any family gatherings. I feel terrible for putting such pressure on them and regrett saying it but at the time I meant it.

It would hurt your son so much if you did not go. I think you will need to attend and hold you head up high. You have done nothing wrong. I am amazed that the OW is game enough to come. She will be the talk of the town and I can only imagine that it will not be nice talk either.
Be the better person and show them you cannot be pushed aside.

29th December 2009, 10:28 AM	#2
j92cool Registered User Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 183	Re: EXH taking girlfriend to sons wedding Oh dear. I don't know how I would cope either. I remember saying to my boys that I would not be caught dead under the same roof as their father so they had better think about it before inviting him to any family gatherings. I feel terrible for putting such pressure on them and regrett saying it but at the time I meant it. It would hurt your son so much if you did not go. I think you will need to attend and hold you head up high. You have done nothing wrong. I am amazed that the OW is game enough to come. She will be the talk of the town and I can only imagine that it will not be nice talk either. Be the better person and show them you cannot be pushed aside.